AftEr alL

I was talking to my sister about her relationship, after 10 years dating the same guy she just find out there's nothing left to save, everything has been discover about each other, they had a conversation this Saturday about their future, this mean living together.
Last week we'd talked about this, so I told her to think about it before take the decision, is hard to see the reality, but what u see is what u get. If is nothing that can be resolve when u still dating(relationship) is never gonna change, it become worse if you will seeing each other 24/7, so many things that can't stand about the way each other are, being under the same roof can ended in a disaster.
So after a lot of thinking, she said everything, he wasn't what she wanted and her wasn't what he needs. He was crying, well love hurts, She wanted to know if somebody else is in his mind or heart, he denied... but now the coin is in the air. He blame her, saying she was lying to him for long time pretending everything was fine but the truth she confessed was: I wasn't lying to you it was to avoid discussions also u never wanted to hear the truth you told me so many times "u are seeing things they aren't there", so we crossed the line from arguing to ignoring each other. So tell me what's the point to keep appearances? we aren't merried so I dont see point.
Then he asked what u need? is important to me to know and see if I can do it. So she answer his question: Can you stop the pain that I'm feeling now? can you change pain for joy? that's what I want and what I need.
Asking for one more chance to try, but is really worth it?, she is having so many doubts, but a month has given to see if the relationship can be rescued.
Not expectations about the next month, she knows and feels nothing is gonna chance, what can be different?, she recall the time when he found one of his co-workers a women to be exactly, he was so happy to see her again, this was the only time my sister made a big deal, why? bc for long time he didn't seem so excited to see my her, the emotion... so is a disappointment.

My personal opinion is whatever is broken sometimes has to stay broken, no matter how big is the love, people never change, just can pretend that everything is fine. Love sux. But who know maybe this movie will have a happy ending.


Tu y yo no estabamos tan mal
Teníamos algo real
Pero de pronto todo nos cambió
Solo sucedió
Yo pensé que esto iba a llegar
mucho más allá

Y desapareció, se fué sin avisar
Lo que hubo entre tu y yo
No quiere regresar
Y desapareció, ya no lo he visto más
Es tan extraño, que todo se quedó
Pero el amor no está

Y és que nadie puede adivinar
lo que quiere el corazón
Y mucho menos puede controlar
por evitar que pierda la ilusión
Yo pensé que esto iba a llegar
mucho más allá

Desaparecio by Rbd